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Do You Wear Your Engagement Ring On Your Wedding Day?

Don't worry, you're definitely not the first bride to wonder, what do you do with your engagement ring on your wedding day? Whether you choose to wear it during the ceremony, keep it safe or follow specific traditions, it’s a personal decision. If you're curious about avoiding superstitions or wearing your engagement ring after the wedding, we're here to guide you.

Do you wear your engagement ring on your wedding day?

Yes, it’s perfectly normal to wear both your engagement ring and wedding ring during your ceremony. Traditionally, brides wear the engagement ring on their right hand while walking down the aisle. This allows the wedding ring to be placed first on the left hand during the ceremony, keeping it closer to the heart.

Bespoke platinum diamond band engagement ring and diamond scallop wedding band.

What is the etiquette of wearing an engagement ring on your wedding day?

The traditional etiquette for wearing an engagement ring on your wedding day involves wearing it on the right hand ring finger during the ceremony. This leaves the left hand ring finger free for the wedding band, which is placed first to symbolise its closeness to the heart. After the ceremony, the bride can slip the engagement ring back onto the left hand, wearing it above the wedding band.

Laura | Gemmologist & Expert Designer

Our expert jewellery designer's thoughts on wedding day ring traditions

As part of the tradition, the wedding band takes precedence, symbolising the start of your marriage, while the engagement ring represents the promise that led to this day’

Queensmith expert designer and gemmologist Laura.

Other options on your wedding day

If you're not one for traditions, there are other ways you can wear your engagement ring in your wedding day. Whether you want to keep it close, set it aside temporarily or try something unconventional, there’s a solution that fits your preferences. Here are a few ideas to help you decide:

Wear your engagement ring on another finger

If you prefer not to disrupt the wedding ring placement tradition, you can temporarily wear your engagement ring on your pinky or another finger – whichever is the most comfortable for you. This keeps it safe while maintaining a unique look for your big day.

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Wear it on the same finger with the wedding band on top

One option is to wear your engagement ring on your left hand ring finger during the ceremony, placing the wedding band on top of it. This breaks from tradition but works well for a more casual approach, and is great if you want both rings visible during the ceremony.

Posed hand wearing a round engagement ring and diamond wedding band, and eternity ring on separate finger, on red background.

Have someone hold your engagement ring

Another idea is to entrust your engagement ring to someone close to you, such as your maid of honour or a family member, until after the ceremony. This is a thoughtful choice if you're worried about managing your rings during the vows.

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No engagement ring – leave it at home safely

Some brides prefer to leave their engagement ring at home for safekeeping during the ceremony. This ensures no accidental loss or damage during the day.

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Is it bad luck to wear your engagement ring on your wedding day?

No, it’s not bad luck to wear your engagement ring on your wedding day. In fact, it’s quite common for brides to wear their engagement ring during the ceremony. Some choose to wear it on their right hand to keep the left hand ring finger free for the wedding band, while others wear both together. The choice is entirely personal, and traditions can be adapted to suit your preferences.

Do you wear your engagement ring after the wedding?

Yes, many people continue to wear their engagement ring after the wedding. There are three common ways to do this: stacking it with the wedding ring, wearing it on a separate finger or saving it for special occasions. Stacking the rings is popular, so choosing matching designs can create a seamless look. For a more detailed explanation, read How To Wear Your Engagement Ring: A Guide To Styling.

For expert advice, book a consultation with us today or explore bespoke engagement ring designs for a truly personalised set.

Close up of oval diamond engagement ring and diamond wedding ring in 18k yellow gold.
Modern bride and groom.
Oval engagement ring and diamond wedding ring in 18k yellow gold.
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