Do Engagement Rings Have to Be Diamond?

Simply put: no, you don't have to feature a diamond in your engagement ring. While diamond engagement rings remain the most popular choice – thanks to their unrivalled durability and sparkle – there’s no rule saying your ring has to feature one. Many couples choose coloured gemstones, like sapphires or rubies, or more minimalist diamond-free designs to create an engagement ring that feels truly personal.

Diamonds became a popular stone for engagement rings in the 20th century, due to clever marketing campaigns and the diamond's natural properties. Diamonds are the hardest known natural material, which makes them ideal for a piece of jewellery you’ll wear every day. Their sparkle, clarity and prestige have made them a universal symbol of everlasting love.

That said, not everyone connects with diamonds – and that’s perfectly fine. Whether you’re drawn to the symbolism of another gem or prefer something more subtle, there are endless ways to make your ring meaningful without a diamond.

Yes – engagement rings don’t have to include a stone. Many opt for sleek, unadorned bands, sculptural metal designs or engraved details instead. Your ring can be completely unique, reflecting your personal style and story without needing a gemstone at all.

For some, a stone-free engagement ring feels more understated, modern or practical for everyday wear. Bespoke engagement rings are always an option at Queensmith, crafted to suit every preference – whether you envision a classic diamond solitaire or a minimalist band that says it all without a single stone.

If you’re looking for something more budget-friendly, ethical or simply more unique than a traditional diamond ring, there are plenty of beautiful alternative engagement ring stones to consider. From vibrant gemstones to minimalist bands, we’ll help you find the perfect way to symbolise your love.

For those who want a pop of colour and personality, coloured gemstone engagement rings offer a striking alternative to the classic diamond. These stones bring their own symbolism, character, and individuality to your design – whether you prefer something regal, romantic or refreshingly modern.

Some of our favourites include:

• Blue sapphire engagement rings – timeless and elegant, sapphires are known for their deep blue hues and impressive durability.
• Green emerald engagement rings – vibrant and luxurious, emeralds symbolise renewal and passion, though they’re a little more delicate.
• Red ruby engagement rings – rich, romantic and full of life, rubies are perfect for making a bold statement.

Increasingly popular among modern couples, lab grown diamond engagement rings offer all the brilliance and durability of natural diamonds – at a more accessible price point and with a smaller environmental footprint.

Because they’re chemically and physically identical to natural diamonds, lab grown diamonds are an ethical and budget-conscious choice that doesn’t compromise on beauty. Read more in our guide to lab grown diamonds and discover the key differences between a lab grown diamond and natural diamond.

Sometimes, simplicity speaks volumes. While plain bands or pavé set bands are often seen as wedding rings, they make a wonderfully understated choice for an engagement ring, too.

Whether you choose a sleek polished finish or a band scattered with small diamonds or gemstones, this minimalist style feels contemporary and timeless, perfect for those who prefer subtle elegance.

For something truly one of a kind, consider creating a bespoke engagement ring. Crafted in our Hatton Garden workshop, a custom engagement ring give you the freedom to create a piece that reflects your partner’s personality, your story together and your shared style.

Our experts will guide you through the process of designing a ring that’s completely unique to you – from choosing the perfect stone to finalising every last detail. Start your journey with our custom engagement rings service today.

Whatever style, stone or design you have in mind, we’re here to help you create an engagement ring you’ll truly love. Explore our full collection of engagement rings for inspiration, or book an appointment in-store or in-store with our experts to start designing your perfect ring today.