All Sex and the City Engagement Rings Revealed

From fashion statements to unforgettable love stories, Sex and the City gave us more than just iconic brunch scenes and Manolo moments – it gave us some of TV’s most memorable engagement rings. Whether you’re curious about Carrie Bradshaw's black diamond engagement ring or want to find the real-life equivalent of these show-stopping designs, we’ve got you covered.

In the Sex and the City film sequel, Mr. Big finally proposes to Carrie Bradshaw – not with a classic white diamond, but with a bold 5 carat black diamond solitaire ring. Set on a sleek white gold band and flanked by smaller accent stones, the ring couldn’t have been a more perfect match for Carrie’s fashion-forward spirit. It was a deliberate move away from convention, embodying her individuality and the wonderfully unpredictable nature of her relationship with Big.

Carrie’s black diamond engagement ring didn’t just steal the show – it redefined what an engagement ring could be. Suddenly, coloured gemstones and unconventional designs were on every modern bride’s radar. But here’s something most people don’t know: black diamonds are actually incredibly included white diamonds, which gives them their opaque appearance – and means they sit at a much lower price point than traditional white diamonds. Unique? Absolutely. Expensive? Not necessarily.

For those looking to capture that same essence of personal style, a custom engagement ring crafted to reflect your story can be just as meaningful. After all, when it comes to love – and jewellery – Carrie has shown us that rules are made to be broken.

Before Mr. Big’s black diamond came Aidan Shaw – Carrie’s kind-hearted, rustic furniture-making fiancé, who proposed not once but twice. In their first engagement, Aidan gifted Carrie a pear shaped diamond set on a plain gold band. But Carrie famously didn’t love the ring – an early hint that something wasn’t quite right.

However Aiden did get it right second round, proposing with a dazzling 3 carat asscher cut diamond ring – elegant and geometric, perfectly suited to Aidan’s understated charm. Though Carrie said yes, commitment came with complications. Instead of wearing the ring traditionally, she famously hung it on a chain around her neck – explaining she needed it “closer to her heart.” A sentiment that said everything. You can explore alternative ways to style and wear your ring in our journal: How To Wear Your Engagement Ring: A Guide To Styling.

If you’re inspired by Carrie’s complex love life and ever-evolving style, Queensmith offers a range of engagement rings with similar character – from the vintage appeal of an asscher cut to the contemporary beauty of a pear shaped diamond. Explore our beloved Bardot and Temple rings for the perfect balance of tradition and individuality – crafted to reflect your story.

Samantha may have been the one Sex and the City woman to never officially tie the knot, but that didn’t stop her from flaunting some truly unforgettable jewellery. Two standout pieces in particular have become cult favourites among fans and ring-lovers alike.

Bold, sculptural and undeniably Samantha, her oversized flower ring wasn’t an engagement ring, but it’s become iconic all the same. The piece features layered petals in a glamorous, high-impact design. For those seeking something equally unique, consider a bespoke Art Deco or vintage-inspired engagement ring that makes a statement without saying a word. Think: geometric forms, intricate milgrain detailing and distinctive centre stones that reflect your individuality.

Samantha’s whirlwind romance with hotel magnate Richard Wright saw her gifted a breathtaking yellow diamond ring, flanked by two white diamonds – a glamorous trilogy design, similar to our Lamar ring, worthy of her larger-than-life persona. For a modern take, explore Queensmith’s collection of trilogy engagement rings, combining coloured centre stones with timeless white diamonds for a look that’s bold, radiant, and oh-so-Samantha.

Charlotte's first engagement, to the ever-proper Trey MacDougal, was marked by a 2.17ct round brilliant cut diamond on a sleek platinum band – timeless, elegant and undeniably classic. It perfectly mirrored Charlotte’s vision of a fairytale romance. For a similar look, explore Queensmith’s round solitaire engagement rings, crafted with precision and simplicity at their core.

After heartbreak came the real deal. Harry’s proposal – raw, emotional and beautifully unplanned – was sealed with a jaw-dropping 5 carat emerald cut diamond ring. Inspired by Elizabeth Taylor’s legendary style, the ring reflects Charlotte’s personal growth and love for bold glamour. Confident and characterful, emerald cuts are perfect for those who appreciate vintage elegance with modern edge. Explore Queensmith’s emerald cut designs to find a style that’s just as captivating.

Always practical and refreshingly grounded, Miranda Hobbes kept it simple when she and Steve tied the knot. She opted for a classic gold band – understated, timeless and meaningful. True to her character, the ring didn’t need diamonds or embellishment to signify her commitment. It’s a reminder that sometimes the simplest designs are the most significant. For those who love minimalism, Queensmith’s simple yellow gold wedding rings embody that quiet confidence and enduring charm.